The question, turned into an actual score
"How well do you know me?" is the most-asked question in friendship and the least-answered, because nobody keeps score. This turns it into a number. You answer ten questions about yourself, send one link, and every person who plays gets a percentage based on how many of your answers they predicted.
The percentage matters more than the ranking here. A ranking tells you who came first. A percentage tells you where each person actually stands — a friend at 80% and a friend at 30% are having two completely different relationships with you, even if one happens to be one place above the other on a list.
It also works beyond your friend group, which is why the phrasing is so common. Siblings claim they know you best. Partners assume it. Coworkers who've sat next to you for three years genuinely have no idea what you do on weekends. The same ten questions work on all of them, and the results are usually not what anyone expected.
Who scores well, and who thinks they will
There's a pattern to this format that shows up again and again: the person most confident about their score is rarely the one who gets it. Confidence tracks how long someone has known you. Accuracy tracks how much attention they've paid lately — and those are different things.
The friend who's known you since school answers based on the version of you from four years ago. The one who's known you eight months but actually listens gets the current answers right. Neither is a better friend, but only one of them wins.
That gap is why this quiz starts conversations. The result isn't the score — it's the person saying "wait, since when do you like that?"
If you'd rather settle a specific rivalry than score everyone, the Best Friend Test ranks two people head-to-head instead.
10 questions for a "how well do you know me" quiz
These load automatically when you start — edit any of them, or write your own. Need more ideas? Browse friend quiz questions.
- What's my go-to order at the place I always go?
- What am I most afraid of?
- Which show have I rewatched the most times?
- What's my zodiac sign?
- What would I pick: a free flight anywhere, or a year of free food?
- What's my biggest ick?
- How many siblings do I have?
- What can't I stop talking about this month?
- What's the one chore I'll do anything to avoid?
- If I had a completely free day, what am I actually doing?
What your score means
- 90–100% — They know the current you. Not the old version. Rare and worth appreciating.
- 60–80% — Solid. They've got your patterns, missed a few recent updates.
- 30–50% — The old version. They know who you were, not who you are. Fixable over coffee.
- 0–20% — Vibes only. They know your name and your energy. That's it.
FAQs (People Also Ask)
How does a "how well do you know me" quiz work?
You answer ten questions about yourself, then get one link to share. Everyone who opens it answers the same questions guessing what you picked, and gets a percentage based on how many they matched. All scores land on one scoreboard so you can compare.
Is it free to make one?
Yes — free to create, free for friends to play, no account and no app on either side. Your link works in any browser.
Can I use it for family or my partner, not just friends?
Yes, and it's one of the most common uses. The questions are about you, so anyone who claims to know you can take it. Siblings and partners tend to score confidently and inaccurately, which is half the fun.
How many questions should I use?
Ten is the sweet spot — enough for a meaningful percentage, short enough that people finish it inside a chat instead of saving it for later and never returning.
What are good "how well do you know me" questions?
Specific, current ones. Not "what's my favorite food" but "what did I order last time we ate together." Recent details separate people who pay attention from people running on old information.
Can I see who scored what?
Yes — every quiz gets its own scoreboard showing each player's name and score in the order they played.
